so much of my
identity was intertwined
with church
Back in 2002, I was thinking about leaving my home church, a decision I eventually made (though it ended up being temporary). I struggled with the fact that so much of my identity was intertwined with church. I volunteered with the youth, drove the bus, worked on committees, changed the sign board, cooked for potlucks, showed up at business meetings, represented the local church at denominational events.
Who would I be if I left?
What, if anything, would be left of me?
Looking back, I wonder if people realize how difficult it can be for people to leave. I'm convinced we must take such decisions much more seriously than we do.
1 comment:
So true- I've had similar thoughts after leaving my job at Fox. The best (and hardest) part of this "sabbatical" season for me has been walking into the separation of role/function from humanity/value. Last year's undergrad commencement speaker talked about leaving well, and Patrick Allen spoke at senior chapel along the same lines. So rich. Thanks for sharing!
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