Thursday, September 16, 2010


it's not just
the young who
have questions.

In much of the Church, there's a cultural divide, a kind of gap between adults and adolescents. Psychologists suggest that adolescents are undergoing a process of identity formation -- figuring out who they are and what they'll stand for -- that causes them to question their parents, their friends, themselves. Sociologists suggest that these questions -- something we often label "doubt" -- make us uncomfortable, that they can create conflict.

Here's the issue; doubt is dangerous. First, because it's disconcerting. The right question in the wrong place can throw everything and everyone off rhythm. Second, it's deviant. People who challenge the status quo identify themselves as not fitting in. They're outsiders. They're weird. They don't belong.

But these questions -- these doubts -- reveal something important about the young among us. Many of them simply want a first-hand experience of Christ. Their faith isn't going to be (can't be) based on someone else's beliefs.

What, then, might happen if church were a different kind of place, a place where questions could be asked openly, a place shaped by freedom not fear, a place with plenty of room for doubt?

My sense is that God has been shaping us into just that kind of community for a long time now. My sense is that it's not just the young who have questions. My sense is that we're in this together.

1 comment:

Sparkling said...

Very interesting insights. I think this is true. We read constantly how 75% of young people who are RAISED IN THE CHURCH (not to mention those who aren't) are walking away from their faith within 4 years after leaving home. This is greatly due to colleges seeking to undermine their faith by making them question their parent's instruction. But it isn't just young people. As we have been actively seeking stronger answers for our faith so that "we will be prepared to give a reason for the hope that is within us" we have encountered stories of adults who walked away from their faith much later in life, also because of this dangerous little thing called "doubt" that you mentioned. They don't KNOW the answers, and they allow doubt to creep in and undermine their faith. I think it's very critical that we teach our children AND OURSELVES about apologetics, about the scientific evidence that supports Creation and Noah's flood described in Genesis, and the other mysteries of the universe that secular science uses to try and undermine our faith, but which, when scrutinized should actually strengthen our faith. Because science supports the Bible! It doesn't undermine it. But only if you know where to find their lies.